No matter what is going on in life, whether it be directly related to you or not, the fact is time goes on whilst it all happens. So what am I getting at? Well, the fact of the matter is there will be times in life where things happen that hit you, and hit you hard, and all you’ll actually want to do is just pull yourself away from the world so that you can recover…

The reality is, however, that the world keeps turning, and that the time you spend trying to get over your past in fact starts to consume your future, after all the world doesn’t just stop because you want it to.

Most of the time when something hits us, our main natural instinct is to try and explain why it has… Obviously different people deal with this in different ways. Some are so determined to find out why, that they’ll spend all their emotional energy in searching it out… Some in fact take the route to find something else to do to take their mind of it, therefore penting up whatever emotions they may be feeling which could eventually arise at a later unexpected date.

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So what happens when someone who you are really close to begins to change their minds about the way the way they feel for you? I guess it all depends on the person they are that determines how they react to the change in feelings…

Some of them may take the right root and explain how they feel and to talk it through with you so that you may understand what’s going on in their head, another option for them to take would be just to end the relationship without explaining why… The last option is one that is used normally because they don’t wish to hurt your feelings, and are too worried of your reaction if they were to talk it through with you…

This option believe it or not, is quite commonly the root taken, its a bit like being phased out, when once you would have been worth finding time for, it becomes more common that they are too “busy” to find that time… And if you don’t live near each other the communication between yourselves will being to deteriorate and when they do communicate they will talk to you different or cut the conversation short one way or another…

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