There’s a famous saying “Nice Guys Finish Last” and I’ve been thinking of that of late, and to be honest if you look at it , it does seem to be true… As chandler once said in friends “you’re such a nice guy’ means: ‘I’m going to be dating leather wearing alcoholics, and complaining about them – to you.’”

So what is it? Why is it that girls seem to prefer the ones that are going to treat them wrong? To be honest I can’t answer that question, why would someone put themselves under more hurt then they need to be? I don’t understand it nor do I attempt to understand it… But yet, it has made me think, should I change? Should I stop caring? Should I become one of those guys that I have disapproved of for so long?

“Chandler, Friends: — “you’re such a nice guy’ means: ‘I’m going to be dating leather wearing alcoholics, and complaining about them – to you.’” –”

Well if I am honest, I have tried it before but I just couldn’t do it, I have a conscious and I cared too much about what I was actually doing… No matter how hard I tried, nor how much I distracted myself, I couldn’t escape the morals that I hold within myself. Sure, we all make mistakes in life, but we don’t all regret them…

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