Hey there all, first of all Happy New year, I hope you all had a fantastic Christmas, and enjoyed your new years celebrations, and I hope you got everything you wanted this Christmas!

Sorry I haven’t written here in a while, I was away for xmas, and dial-up connections are not the best when it comes to maintaining things like this, and then since I have got back to the UK I have been very busy, but now I am settled I can get back to keeping you all up to date with my thoughts.

Oh by the way, those of you who have registered at my site, and also those of you I talk to often online, or who I have the e-mail address of, should have received a Christmas Greeting that I had designed from scratch, if you didn’t get it, please let me know and I will send it to you again, but be aware it may have been caught by your SPAM filter so check your junk mail inbox first.

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So what happens when someone who you are really close to begins to change their minds about the way the way they feel for you? I guess it all depends on the person they are that determines how they react to the change in feelings…

Some of them may take the right root and explain how they feel and to talk it through with you so that you may understand what’s going on in their head, another option for them to take would be just to end the relationship without explaining why… The last option is one that is used normally because they don’t wish to hurt your feelings, and are too worried of your reaction if they were to talk it through with you…

This option believe it or not, is quite commonly the root taken, its a bit like being phased out, when once you would have been worth finding time for, it becomes more common that they are too “busy” to find that time… And if you don’t live near each other the communication between yourselves will being to deteriorate and when they do communicate they will talk to you different or cut the conversation short one way or another…

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