There’s a famous saying “Nice Guys Finish Last” and I’ve been thinking of that of late, and to be honest if you look at it , it does seem to be true… As chandler once said in friends “you’re such a nice guy’ means: ‘I’m going to be dating leather wearing alcoholics, and complaining about them - to you.’”

So what is it? Why is it that girls seem to prefer the ones that are going to treat them wrong? To be honest I can’t answer that question, why would someone put themselves under more hurt then they need to be? I don’t understand it nor do I attempt to understand it… But yet, it has made me think, should I change? Should I stop caring? Should I become one of those guys that I have disapproved of for so long?

“Chandler, Friends: — “you’re such a nice guy’ means: ‘I’m going to be dating leather wearing alcoholics, and complaining about them - to you.’” –”

Well if I am honest, I have tried it before but I just couldn’t do it, I have a conscious and I cared too much about what I was actually doing… No matter how hard I tried, nor how much I distracted myself, I couldn’t escape the morals that I hold within myself. Sure, we all make mistakes in life, but we don’t all regret them…

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No matter what is going on in life, whether it be directly related to you or not, the fact is time goes on whilst it all happens. So what am I getting at? Well, the fact of the matter is there will be times in life where things happen that hit you, and hit you hard, and all you’ll actually want to do is just pull yourself away from the world so that you can recover…

The reality is, however, that the world keeps turning, and that the time you spend trying to get over your past in fact starts to consume your future, after all the world doesn’t just stop because you want it to.

Most of the time when something hits us, our main natural instinct is to try and explain why it has… Obviously different people deal with this in different ways. Some are so determined to find out why, that they’ll spend all their emotional energy in searching it out… Some in fact take the route to find something else to do to take their mind of it, therefore penting up whatever emotions they may be feeling which could eventually arise at a later unexpected date.

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