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Archive for December, 2005

It’s That Time Of The Year…

Monday, December 19th, 2005

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So it’s come that time of the year, the sometimes dreaded Christmas Parties, the Christmas shopping rush, Carolers left, right and center, spending more money than you have… But yet, somehow its a time of year we all look forward to, maybe because of the days we get off work, maybe because its the main time of the year you get to spend with family… Or realistically its the time of year you can over drink and over eat and not feel guilty about it ;-) hehe

So I’ve decided to get into the festive spirit and do a special Christmas post on my blog with a special Christmas caption image of course :-P Christmas for me, is a time of year I get to spend with family, being mostly Greek by blood, family is very important for me, but I think that’s the same for a lot of people during this time of year…

I’ll be heading off on my Christmas Holidays on the 22nd, where I’ll be spending Christmas and new years with my father and my sister, unfortunately my brother couldn’t get the time off work, so it’ll just be my sister and my dad. But at least I’ll be with family, otherwise I may have ended up in Manchester alone this Christmas, and I’m sure that woulda been kinda sad lol

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1000 Questions….

Monday, December 12th, 2005

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You know there are always times when in your head there’ll be an ocean of questions, and I guess today is one of those days for me, they are a mixed variety of questions, some more fundamental than others, but nonetheless they are there.

So how do I deal with them? I guess I could just ignore them, I guess I could tackle them head on, but I think its best to meet it half way between those two. You see if you ignore them completely, they wont be gone they will linger and keep digging at you until you can’t take it anymore, yet if you try and tackle them all at once they may overwhelm you, so its best to go for the middle, and tackle the questions at the forefront of your mind.

“I don’t think it’s fair to point the finger at Sir Alex, the responsibility lies with the team as the whole, Sir Alex can only do so much, but its down to the players to show the grit and determination on the pitch to carry on through adversity.”

So the first of the group of questions are not vitally important to my life, but nonetheless they are there, being a (Manchester) United supporter, serious questions are beginning to be asked by the media and football’s highest standing voices, but who do you exactly blame?

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Being Phased Out…

Monday, December 5th, 2005

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So what happens when someone who you are really close to begins to change their minds about the way the way they feel for you? I guess it all depends on the person they are that determines how they react to the change in feelings…

Some of them may take the right root and explain how they feel and to talk it through with you so that you may understand what’s going on in their head, another option for them to take would be just to end the relationship without explaining why… The last option is one that is used normally because they don’t wish to hurt your feelings, and are too worried of your reaction if they were to talk it through with you…

This option believe it or not, is quite commonly the root taken, its a bit like being phased out, when once you would have been worth finding time for, it becomes more common that they are too “busy” to find that time… And if you don’t live near each other the communication between yourselves will being to deteriorate and when they do communicate they will talk to you different or cut the conversation short one way or another…

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Above All Stick to Your Morals…

Sunday, December 4th, 2005

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In today’s world there are challenges that lie in front of us, times that arise, that we will have to make certain decisions… But sometimes you may be asked to do something that may not seem “right” to you, but yet the person who is asking you to do it is really relying on you to do it for them…

So how do you react? You have morals that say you wouldn’t ever do something like that… So the question should be, why should you go against your morals? I truly believe you shouldn’t, and someone who is a good friend would NEVER ask you to do that either…

“The moment you start going against your morals is the moment you start to lose the person you are…”

You see your morals form the ground level on the person you are, your morals drive you through life and the decisions you make…The moment you start going against your morals is the moment you start to lose the person you are… I know there are a lot of pressures in this world that may influence the decisions you make, like popularity, impression and peer pressure but don’t let them forget about your morals…

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