Hey there again, sorry ONCE AGAIN for the delay in a new post on here, my main computer needed a reformat so I spent a week formatting, installing, configuring etc…
So on with the show as they say… “Love” that well known emotion… But also the most misunderstood of all emotions, it can be the source of all the other emotions, as well as the cure for them… When you are “in” love, everything in the world can seem unbreakable and unblemishable… When you’re “out” of love, things can seem bleak, and tainted…
But I am not here to talk about the effects of love… But more what love is? I guess in a lot of ways that’s a brave question to tackle, and one that I most likely wont be able to answer… Well at least not to a level everyone can accept…
I guess love is a perception of life and the people in it, you have an unbreakable and unmatchable love between family, no matter how many fights you have between each other at the end of the day you love your family, and you always will, no matter how much you don’t want to…
But what about the love beyond family? In a lot of ways we all crave someone to look after us, to care for us, to be there for us… No matter the personality, deep down we all crave that, and when we do find it we just naturally feel more complete and happy with what life is… But how do you know when it’s “love” and not just infatuation?
“Love is accepting someone for who they are, who they could turn out to be and who they were…”
The way I see it is that love is begun by infatuation, but it takes the right compatibility the right person to grow into love, the first few months of a relationship are known as the easy ones, where the infatuation allows you to disregard a person’s flaws, but then as the infatuation simmers down, it is whether you actually begin to see these flaws that make the difference…
Love is accepting someone for who they are, who they could turn out to be and who they were, love is the ability to let someone go even if that is the last thing you wish to do, and that you can let them go so they can seek out what makes them happy… Sound impossible? Well its not, and you will realize that when you find it… I think when you do find love you will be surprised at just how unselfish you become just to please the person you are with…
When you are in love the person you are with will have no flaws, well at least not in your eyes, and that is because the positives is what you concentrate on and its what makes you love them as you do… You will also find utter comfort in their company and their presence, and you will be willing to overcome anything to be with them, love has no limits and it has no boundaries and the reality is when you find it, you really will know…
Be careful though, “I love you” is the most misused phrase in linguistics, so use it with care, and be aware that just because someone doesn’t say it, it doesn’t mean they don’t care about you, they may just be taking the sensible route and making sure that when they do come about to saying it, that you will know they mean it, and that the words have a substance behind them, rather than an empty interior…
“You can’t really define love, because love is a person, love is the person out there meant for you and you alone, love is in the eye of the beholder, and not in the eyes of others…”
You can’t really define love, because love is a person, love is the person out there meant for you and you alone, love is in the eye of the beholder, and not in the eyes of others. So no, ultimately I can’t answer the question, what is love, because the only person who has the answer is yourself…
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