Jealousy… It’s one of those things that none of us enjoy feeling, but yet is an emotion that we all feel… Some are better hiding it than others… But what is the best way to deal with it?

You see, in some cases a bit of jealousy shown, can make your partner feel more loved… But then again too much and its suffocating, then again none shown at all could be interpreted that you don’t care at all…

So your in a bit of a predicament, no one likes to be suffocated by their partner’s jealousy, so how much do you show? You don’t want them to think you don’t care…

“jealousy is a very ugly emotion, but then again pent it all up inside and you could find yourself loosing it completely…”

The way I see it, is that jealousy is a very ugly emotion, but then again pent it all up inside and you could find yourself loosing it completely… So its good to let it out bit by bit, let your partner know you do actually care at the same time, and you may find you get the best of both worlds…

That brings me onto my next point though… Thinking too much about things… Jealousy can be enhanced by thoughts about what your partner may be doing when you are not with them, STOP IT! I know it’s difficult but chances are you are making things worst for yourself then you need them to be, so relax, have trust in your partner…

So it’s wise to think before you do or say things… But think too much and you could find yourself wound up… Not by anyone else, but by your own thoughts…

I got to admit, I do it at times as well, and it’s sometimes really difficult to stop it, and if you do get to that point then, find something else to do, something to get your mind off it all, and you will find that if you do it will all blow over…

“It’s wise to think before you do or say things… But think too much and you could find yourself wound up… Not by anyone else, but by your own thoughts…”

I’ve learnt this the hard way, and learning this is all part of growing up… But there is no harm in learning it sooner rather than later… And you may find it saves you a lot of heartache in the long run…

So remember, think before you say or do things, but don’t overthink it as the outcome may be worst than if you hadn’t thought at all, and jealousy can be good for you… But in small portions…

That’s it for now, so ciao…