If like me, you like to understand all you can about your partner so that you may further understand how to care for them when they are down, or in stress… But when, if ever, should you pause to think, that in your venture to find out more about your partner, you could come across a past that maybe you’d be better off not knowing?

You see, we have all made mistakes in the past, some with more an impact than others, and sometimes these mistakes could haunt us for a long time after they are made…

But should your partner know your deepest darkest secrets of your past? I guess it depends on your partner’s commitment, will they be able to look beyond your past demons? Or will it grind at them over time, and the trust they had in you before you said anything may slowly fade away…

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Jealousy… It’s one of those things that none of us enjoy feeling, but yet is an emotion that we all feel… Some are better hiding it than others… But what is the best way to deal with it?

You see, in some cases a bit of jealousy shown, can make your partner feel more loved… But then again too much and its suffocating, then again none shown at all could be interpreted that you don’t care at all…

So your in a bit of a predicament, no one likes to be suffocated by their partner’s jealousy, so how much do you show? You don’t want them to think you don’t care…

“jealousy is a very ugly emotion, but then again pent it all up inside and you could find yourself loosing it completely…”

The way I see it, is that jealousy is a very ugly emotion, but then again pent it all up inside and you could find yourself loosing it completely… So its good to let it out bit by bit, let your partner know you do actually care at the same time, and you may find you get the best of both worlds…

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It’s funny, recently I’ve noticed how particularly in the western world people have become so accustomed to getting things their way that they are ready to scream bloody murder if it doesn’t happen.

For example being a Manchester United fan… Yeah I know, I know, no one is perfect hehe but joking aside, you would have needed to have lived in a deep dark hole, or to be not that interested in football (or soccer for those out there that call it that) to not know that over the last decade it has been Manchester United that dominated the premiership… But now things have taken turn, and the premiership is becoming a better all round league, and with Chelsea’s new (what seems) unlimited bank balance the powers seem to be changing…

“yet like spoilt kids, the united fans have started booing the side, lack of loyalty comes to mind…”

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